What I learned during this pandemic

Here's what I have learned from this pandemic so far. I will add more to this as we progress with this worldwide pandemic.

1. Simple lifestyle - we have way too much at home that we don't need anymore. We spend way more than necessary on unimportant things

2. Home-cooked food is good for our body, mind, and soul.

3. Spending meaningful, quality time with family is most important.

4. It is okay to have anxiety about the pandemic. You aren't alone.

5. Protecting yourself and your family is of the highest priority

6. Try to not judge others especially while looking at other parents letting their kids play around like the pre-pandemic times or people roaming around freely without masks.

7. Make sure to set time for yourself during the day

8. Keep yourself entertained

9. We are extremely privileged that we can stay indoors, order groceries from home while many folks have to be out in the open to help us stay in at home.

10. While staying socially distanced, stay connected with people around you

11. Learn or do something new and exciting. Do not let the monotony get to you. It needn't be extravagant. Simply coloring or drawing can be therapeutic.

12. What you can, give. Monthly, weekly, quarterly. This pandemic has surely taught us that there are so many people who cannot afford to not work. Help them. Help institutions that serve food to children. Help in a way that makes sense to you and is meaningful to the recipients.

I am learning so many things and discovering new perspectives via many podcasts. I'll write about them soon. Until next time, Happy Reading!

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