The worth of Love
So I have my nieces who are just grown up enough to probably be in relationships or get married (though in my eyes they are always kids) and also team members who are in their early 20s around me. The one constant advice I give them is to never diminish their worth for the sake of love. I was watching Coffee Prince, a K-Drama which stars Gong Yoo, and I was looking at how they show the male lead treating her badly because he was in love with her. While I watch it, I cannot but imagine people wondering if it is okay to be treated badly in the name of love. You should never feel intimidated in love or feel like the other person will leave you if you do not follow their orders. I follow a lady on Instagram who is sharing her life story on abuse and how she got out of it. One common theme is that she herself did not accept it was abuse until it got too far. She always blamed herself for all the abuse - verbal and physical - all because she was very happy and in love ...
